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Ladies Devotional

"Repent therefore of this thy wickedness, and pray God, if perhaps the thought of thine heart may be forgiven thee. For I perceive that thou art
in the gall of bitterness, and in the bond of iniquity." - Acts 8:22-23  Bitterness according to the Websters 1828 dictionary is "In a figurative sense, extreme enmity, grudge, hatred; or rather an excessive degree or implacableness of passions and emotions; as the bitterness of anger. Inthe gall of bitterness, in a state of extreme impiety or enmity to God.  Acts. 8.Root of bitterness, a dangerous error, or schism, tending to draw persons
 to apostasy. Heb.12."Bitterness starts when a person feels that they have been wronged and they are not willing to forgive even if the person that has supposedly wronged them has tried to make things right. In the book of Philemon, Paul asks Philemon to forgive and accept Onesimus once again, because he has repented and has been born-again. No doubt, Philemon was bitter because of the wrong that Onesimus had done to him, or that he felt he had done to him. Look at Philemon 18, Paul says, "If he hath wronged thee, or oweth thee ought, put that on mine account" It is almost as if
Paul doubts whether Philemon has really been wronged and is posing that question to Philemon himself to consider. We are the same way, often we
think we have been wronged; because of pride or selfishness  we take offense to something that we had no right to take offense to and
then we let it grown into bitterness toward that person or even toward God Himself. Bitterness will be a problem. Look at Ephesians 4:30-32,
"Ephesians 4:30 And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, and wrath, and
anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you." Bitterness, as well as these other sins will grieve the Holy Spirit; it is no wonder
that the Spirit of the Lord cannot get more done, it is because we grieve Him so much with the bitterness in our hearts. Secondly, bitterness will
trouble you. Look at Hebrews 4:14-16 which says, "Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord: Looking
diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled; Lest
there be any fornicator, or profane person, as Esau, who for one morsel of meat sold his birthright." Bitterness will trouble and defile you and
others around you, plus, it leads to fornication and being profane. And thirdly, if we regard bitterness in our hearts then we are in the same
class as the ungodly. Look at Romans 3:13-18, "Their throat is an open sepulchre; with their tongues they have used deceit; the poison of asps
is under their lips: Whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness: Their feet are swift to shed blood: Destruction and misery are in their ways:
And the way of peace have they not known: There is no fear of God before their eyes." Bitterness is killing our churches, our marriages, and our
homes; get it out before it kills you. God bless you until next time.


Sis. Tanya